The Girls You Should Be Marrying

Good Morning Beautiful Ladies and Good Morning Gentleman. I just read this article from elitedaily.com which catch my attention this morning. Interesting article to read and its brilliantly written. In my opinion it was just totally bang on the button about this generation and I totally agree with the type of women that men should be with; they do exist just don’t be bad in judgement. Enjoy reading!

“Earlier in the month I wrote an article titled “The Girls Who Are Never Getting Married”. You may have read it; it continues to get an influx of negative comments to this day, as the only people that are offended are the ones that know its true. So many women were furious with the article, claiming that the man who wrote it was misogynistic, disgusting, and my favorite comment “has four girls buried under his crawl space.”

Well Elite Daily readers, I wrote that article, and I am a female. Surprised? Feeling stupid? I hope so. I wrote that article because I’m disgusted with the girls of my generation who use their sexuality to get ahead in life, and disrespect themselves on a daily basis. I’m flattered that you think I’m a male chauvinist and a creep though. I may be a bitch but I’m just being honest.

I could honestly care less if your goal in life is to get married or not. If you choose not to, that’s your choice and I hope that it makes you happy. I wrote that article because those are the women I would hate to see my close guy friends end up with, or my brothers. If any guy that I’m close with wants to pursue a long-term relationship, these are the women I hope they do that with and eventually end up with.

The 30-Year Old With The Graduate School Degree

This girl took the initiative to further her education, and wants to make something of herself career wise. She’s a hard worker and she chooses to work hard on her own. She is independent and she is the perfect alpha woman. It’s one thing to go to a four-year university and graduate with a degree and get a successful job. Trust me, I commend anyone that does that and encourage all of you to do so.

The thing about a graduate of graduate school that intrigues me is that they knew that it would mean more work and less partying. Not many people are willing to pay ridiculous amounts of money to further their education. I like a girl like this because you know that she’s smart, you know that she has drive, and you know that she’ll keep you stimulated. She is the farthest thing away from that club whore you usually hang out with that is most likely blown out down there by now.

The Best Of Both Worlds

The perfect girl. She’s smart, she reads during her free time but watches shitty television. She loves to shop and present herself well but feels most comfortable with her feet up on the coffee table, drinking a few beers, watching the game with the guys. This girl can laugh at stupid girly nonsense but still take a joke when the guys she’s friends with try to bust her balls.

I want guys to end up with a girl like this, because I feel like they’ll never be bored. They’ll get the sexiness and femininity that they crave along with a best friend, because relationships almost never work if you’re not friends with your significant other. My parents have been married for 25 years and still chase each other around the house and play tag and that’s because my mom is a down ass bitch who loves Led Zeppelin and stilettos. Oh shit, I called my mom a bitch, that’s offending feminists right? Sorry I’m not.

The best of both worlds is truly what it means. It’s the girl that will pig out with you on burgers and hotdogs but still be so hot about it. She may even know how to play Madden. This is the girl that will go and buy beer and steak for you and your friends during man night. There is nothing like being with a girl that is just down with everything.

The Girl Who’s Got Her Own

Just like the annoyingly catchy Ne-Yo song says. The girl who’s completely independent. She wants you but she sure as hell doesn’t need you. She’s educated, she has a job, she pays her bills on time, buys all of her own shit, completely takes care of herself and is more than happy with her life. You want to go out with your guys? Cool, do that, she’ll call you tomorrow, cause she’ll be out doing her own thing.

A girl like this is an absolute keeper. She can be in a relationship, but she doesn’t need you to take care of her because she can take care of you. What guy wouldn’t want this? It’s borderline terrifying when a girl absolutely needs you in her life to make her happy.

So Elite Daily, that’s who I would want my brothers or my good guy friends ending up with. I know what some of you are thinking, “girls like this don’t exist”. I hear it everyday in these offices, but guess what, they do. They exist and I’d much rather all of the men out there wait and find one, instead of wasting their time on a girl who doesn’t respect themselves. Some may say these girls are unicorns and don’t exist but I beg to differ, try looking in the right places and not the club you frequently visit.”

Elite.

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2 thoughts on “The Girls You Should Be Marrying

    • Hi there, hope everything is good. Well am actually a twenty something girl also. Am totally agreed when you said people put pressure on you when they keep asking stupid questions like when are going to get married?why you don’t have a boyfriend and stuff. I totally understand how you felt because I’ve been trough this before plus am a Malay girl luckily not born in typical Malay family. When time pass by, no one realize you are there i mean no one will care no more about you unless you making a lot of trouble you know what i mean. As long as you know your plan, where are you driving for your life is all up to you.
      More over, you have to have a plan before you reach at certain age like me, because i do feel am a lil late to do a lot of things not to say regret but sad because am not thinking and doing it earlier. So as i grew older, i already have my plan with me is just that i need to implement it from time to time. 😀

      By the way, nice article to read. Have a great awesome day!

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